Sunday 2 August 2015

Apart from REALITY

   Why is it important to have someone in our life? Well, the answer is simple and straight…It takes both hands to Clap….you need someone to talk to, someone to share your happiness, your worry, your achievements, your emotions..!! But, what if u have someone in your life that doesn’t even exist apart from your imagination, what if u created an image of that ‘someone’ in your mind which is completely different from the reality? Then what? Well, the clash between Reality and Perception begins, not just in your mind but also with the outer world. This 'outer world' having their own perception about that someone, may have a completely different image of that person, so naturally, it’s a call for a conflict between U & them.

   Now where exactly is this person? Does this person really exist in reality or just in our minds? In many cases, it’s our mind that creates this image to comfort our curious & unsatisfied thoughts. Now, is it beneficial for us? Well, in Short-run, U may discover a magnificent comfort zone to spend all your time in, but in Long-run, it’s an open invitation to disaster. Ask yourself, how is it useful for u to invest all your resources in a venture which doesn’t even exist and won’t pay-off in any way.


   Now, What to do in this situation?, I mean, you actually don’t have that special someone to Share your feelings with, whatsoever the reasons be, for example, In rarest of cases, people just lack the interest to maintain any particular relations, “The Lone Wolf” kind..!!, they HUNT alone, they SUFFER alone, they ENJOY alone, they WALK alone, they even REGRET alone.., over that, if you are an Unsatisfied-kind, it’s a worst-case scenario anywhere possible. So, what to do in this situation? Well, the source of your problems lies in your overestimated desires!! You don’t accept yourself the way you are!You lie to yourself!You try to be someone else, you don’t even know!, At-last you become a person you aren’t and fall for the one, who doesn’t even exist!! Start informing yourself about the needs of your life, rather than desires, start accepting yourself the way you are & take pride in it,  be completely truthful to yourself, Know the real you & start behaving like that person.., & trust me you won’t be needing the one that doesn’t even exist rather than the one who truly waits for you..!!!

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